beating & cheating.

beating or cheating?   cheating or beating??

india beating pakistan in the cricket or hockey world cup final -  unadulterated bliss for every local and global indian, cricket/hockey lover and hater alike!!  

beating the retreat - complete aural orgasm!

beating your wife? grrrrrrrr!!!   how a man. who promises to love and respect his shy new bride can destroy that trust and love in her eyes and heart, in many ways - a slap across her face, pushing her against a wall, burning her with cigarettes, kicking her in the rear - the list is endless.  and when her lovely face and fragile body is covered with bruises or she's dislocated her wrist, the remorse on his once cruel face, so vividly evident at the horror of what he's just done!  promises to change are made, but are empty and hollow.  

cheating in an exam, not cool at all!!  cheating death?   ever so often we hear or read about somebody cheating death on a bike, in a car, during 9/11, at mumbai's terrorist attacks aka 28/11.

cheating - men have been doing it since time immemorial.  is it the thrill of the fling?  the danger of not getting caught?  the excitement and anticipation of sex in a sleazy motel, or the back seat of his car where his children sit on family outings?   women are not far behind!   "anything men can do, women do better"!  u gotta be kidding me!!

what has happened to monogamy today?   have vulgarity, perversion, cheap thrills taken over our lives?    a wonderful wise old lady told me once - it's bad enough u have to take your clothes off for your husband, imagine doing it for other men too!   i don't know how a girl can do that. 

all of us who are blessed with loving, faithful partners must be eternally grateful to God for bringing them into our lives, and for keeping them that way.


beating your opponent on the cricket field, basketball court, at table tennis or at a chess match - amazingly cool!!  
wife, and now, even husband beating - disgustingly uncool.


cheating death - blessed to have been given a second chance!  use it wisely!
cheating on your spouse -  just plain wrong!